In French we say "I have 22 years", in English it is "I am 22". (Personally I agree with the French language on this point). We aren't the number.
How will I know when my mid-life crisis hits or when I'm at the prime of my life if I don't know how long my life will actually be?
I'm always afraid people will think I am younger than I am, and sometimes I think I'm younger than I am. This year will mark the fourth year since I graduated from high school and the 22nd of my whole life but I still can't fully see myself as one of those "grown ups" and I still do a double take when someone refers to me as Sister Smith.
That is until last Sunday.
The older primary kids sang happy birthday to me. And when it was my turn to teach singing time I asked them how old they thought I was. Right off the bat a 10 year old yells, "39"! I got some other answers that stayed in the 30's for a bit and then some of them ventured into the high 20's. I finally had someone guess 22 after a few minutes and I sighed in relief!
I guess that solves the mystery of if they saw me as an adult...
Now I'm concerned about if I look older than I am... Confidence is a fickle thing.